The Specifics of Happiness

I believe before i wrote as previous great philosophers did that happiness is a multi-dimensional trait and the only quest worthy for the sake of itself.

As such finances, social and private relationships, possessions, achievements, success etc etc all constitute happiness in totality. With one of the total missing we are not 'truly' happy.

This being said the human bellow of "I want to be happy" is at best wishful thinking.
Why? Because if we have established that happiness is multi-functional, when you view it single entity you neglect the specific ingredients that make the recipe and subsequent delightful dish.

It is often said that if you aim at nothing you are sure to hit it... (i believe this is easy to see in context of midevil times and archery) hmmn deja vu... like when you are young trying to throw paper in a water paper basket only to hit the gorund and your retort to missing the basket was well i was successful in hitting the ground. Shoot!

So let's get specific with this life, tell it exactly what we want - rather demand exactly what we want and get it! Rather than adopt vague cliches of society no doubt popular due to the vision of oppressors.

Getting to know yourself

No masturbation necessary!

I'm referring to situations where who you are hits you in the face like a ton of bricks

When all your life boils and simmers done to one irrevocable fact, no longer can you run from it ... it is right there starring you in the face... what are you going to do about it?

Find a solution that's the martial way, how can your life be on the line and you not care, and really who gives a hoot what a shrink has to say.

The only solution is as before to pull out that which lies within, the source of indomitable strength the source itself God gave to you to 'represent'

All the people in the world, all their bull shit, all their lies, all the concern that benefits you none when concern doesn't translate to action ... that's like thinking of going to work... not going and then telling the boss that it should still count for something.

Still knowledgeable people know where to go, to those who already know and even if they don't know we know that they will still help via discussion, instead of blatant frustration.

Getting to know yourself then can require a guide from time to time and the guide never, ever chooses you. You choose the guide carefully so you can better yourself and be there when others need a qualified guide for a brief period of time.

Thank you Henry

Thank you Thierry

for highlighting the dark fact that most humans aren't all that

see we all have flaws even if only on the sub consious level

I'm not mad at you yet the consequences are never going to be undone

what's done is really done.

And your saving grace may just be your character from before,

If it was another it could have been much worse yet it is you

the pleasant frenchman, not the diving Drogba or angry Emundo

Oh well time will tell if humans ever learn that humans are humans

we are all mistake making machines